Family and childhood
Early life and ancestry
Abraham Lincoln was born February 12, 1809, the second child of
Nancy Hanks Lincoln, in a one-room log cabin on the
Sinking Spring Farm near
 He was a descendant of
Samuel Lincoln, an Englishman who migrated from
Hingham, Norfolk, to its namesake of
Hingham, Massachusetts, in 1638. Samuel's grandson and great-grandson began the family's western migration, which passed through
 Lincoln's paternal grandfather and namesake,
Captain Abraham Lincoln, moved the family from Virginia to
Jefferson County, Kentucky, in the 1780s.
 Captain Lincoln was killed in an
Indian raid in 1786. His children, including eight-year-old Thomas,
 the future president's father, witnessed the attack.
 After his father's murder, Thomas was left to make his own way on the frontier, working at odd jobs in Kentucky and in
Tennessee, before settling with members of his family in
Hardin County, Kentucky, in the early 1800s.
Lincoln's mother, Nancy, is widely assumed to have been the daughter of Lucy Hanks, although no record of Nancy Hanks' birth has ever been found.
 According to William Ensign Lincoln's book The Ancestry of Abraham Lincoln, Nancy was the daughter of Joseph Hanks;
 however, the debate continues over whether she was born out of wedlock. Still another researcher, Adin Baber, claims that Nancy Hanks was the daughter of Abraham Hanks and Sarah Harper of Virginia.
Thomas Lincoln and Nancy Hanks were married on June 12, 1806, in Washington County, and moved to
Elizabethtown, Kentucky, following their marriage.
 They became the parents of three children: Sarah, born on February 10, 1807; Abraham, on February 12, 1809; and another son, Thomas, who died in infancy.
 Thomas Lincoln bought or leased several farms in Kentucky, including the Sinking Spring farm, where Abraham was born; however, a land title dispute soon forced the Lincolns to move.
 In 1811, the family moved eight miles (13 km) north, to
Knob Creek Farm, where Thomas acquired title to 230 acres (93 ha) of land. In 1815 a claimant in another land dispute sought to eject the family from the farm.
 Of the 816.5 acres (330.4 ha) that Thomas held in Kentucky, he lost all but 200 acres (81 ha) of his land in court disputes over property titles.
 Frustrated over the lack of security provided by the Kentucky title survey system in the courts, Thomas sold the remaining land he held in Kentucky in 1814, and began planning a move to
Indiana, where the land survey process was more reliable and the ability for an individual to retain land titles was more secure.
In 1816, the family moved north across the
Ohio River to
Indiana, a free, non-slaveholding territory, where they settled in an "unbroken forest"
 in Hurricane Township,
Perry County. (Their land in southern Indiana became part of
Spencer County, Indiana, when the county was established in 1818.)
 The farm is preserved as part of the
Lincoln Boyhood National Memorial. In 1860, Lincoln noted that the family's move to Indiana was "partly on account of slavery"; but mainly due to land title difficulties in Kentucky.
 During the family's years in Kentucky and Indiana, Thomas Lincoln worked as a farmer, cabinetmaker, and carpenter.
 He owned farms, several town lots and livestock, paid taxes, sat on juries, appraised estates, served on country slave patrols, and guarded prisoners. Thomas and Nancy Lincoln were also members of a
Separate Baptists church, which had restrictive moral standards and opposed alcohol, dancing, and slavery.
 Within a year of the family's arrival in Indiana, Thomas claimed title to 160 acres (65 ha) of Indiana land. Despite some financial challenges he eventually obtained clear title to 80 acres (32 ha) of land in what became known as the
in Spencer County.
 Prior to the family's move to Illinois in 1830, Thomas had acquired an additional twenty acres of land adjacent to his property.
Several significant family events took place during Lincoln's youth in Indiana. On October 5, 1818, Nancy Lincoln died of
milk sickness, leaving eleven-year-old
Sarah in charge of a household that included her father, nine-year-old Abraham, and Dennis Hanks, Nancy's nineteen-year-old orphaned cousin.
 On December 2, 1819, Lincoln's father married
Sarah "Sally" Bush Johnston, a widow from Elizabethtown, Kentucky, with three children of her own.
 Abraham became very close to his stepmother, whom he referred to as "Mother".
 Those who knew Lincoln as a teenager later recalled him being very distraught over his sister Sarah's death on January 20, 1828, while giving birth to a
As a youth, Lincoln disliked the hard labor associated with frontier life. Some of his neighbors and family members thought for a time that he was lazy for all his "reading, scribbling, writing, ciphering, writing Poetry, etc.",
 and must have done it to avoid manual labor. His stepmother also acknowledged he did not enjoy "physical labor", but loved to read.
 Lincoln was largely self-educated. His formal schooling from several itinerant teachers was intermittent, the aggregate of which may have amounted to less than a year; however, he was an avid reader and retained a lifelong interest in learning.
 Family, neighbors, and schoolmates of Lincoln's youth recalled that he read and reread the
King James Bible,
The Pilgrim's Progress,
Mason Locke Weems's The Life of Washington, and
The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin, among others.
As he grew into his teens, Lincoln took responsibility for the chores expected of him as one of the boys in the household. He also complied with the customary obligation of a son giving his father all earnings from work done outside the home until the age of twenty-one.
 Abraham became adept at using an axe. Tall for his age, Lincoln was also strong and athletic.
 He attained a reputation for brawn and audacity after a very competitive wrestling match with the renowned leader of a group of ruffians known as "the Clary's Grove boys".
In early March 1830, partly out of fear of a
milk sickness outbreak along the Ohio River, several members of the extended Lincoln family moved west to Illinois, a non-slaveholding state, and settled in
Macon County, 10 miles (16 km) west of
 Historians disagree on who initiated the move; Thomas Lincoln had no obvious reason to leave Indiana, and one possibility is that other members of the family, including Dennis Hanks, might not have attained the stability and steady income that Thomas Lincoln had.
 After the family relocated to Illinois, Abraham became increasingly distant from his father,
 in part because of his father's lack of education, but occasionally lent him money.
 In 1831, as Thomas and other members of the family prepared to move to a
new homestead in
Coles County, Illinois, Abraham was old enough to make his own decisions and struck out on his own.
 Traveling down the
Sangamon River, he ended up in the village of
New Salem in
 Later that spring,
Denton Offutt, a New Salem merchant, hired Lincoln and some friends to take goods by
flatboat from New Salem to New Orleans via the Sangamon, Illinois, and Mississippi rivers. After arriving in New Orleans—and witnessing slavery firsthand—Lincoln returned to New Salem, where he remained for the next six years.
Marriage and children
1864 photo of President Lincoln with youngest son,
According to some sources, Lincoln's first romantic interest was
Ann Rutledge, whom he met when he first moved to New Salem; these sources indicate that by 1835, they were in a relationship but not formally engaged.
 She died at the age of 22 on August 25, 1835, most likely of
 In the early 1830s, he met Mary Owens from Kentucky when she was visiting her sister.
Late in 1836, Lincoln agreed to a match with Mary if she returned to New Salem. Mary did return in November 1836, and Lincoln courted her for a time; however, they both had second thoughts about their relationship. On August 16, 1837, Lincoln wrote Mary a letter suggesting he would not blame her if she ended the relationship. She never replied and the courtship ended.
In 1840, Lincoln became engaged to
Mary Todd, who was from a wealthy slave-holding family in
 They met in
Springfield, Illinois in December 1839
 and were engaged the following December.
 A wedding set for January 1, 1841, was canceled when the two broke off their engagement at Lincoln's initiative.
 They later met again at a party and married on November 4, 1842, in the Springfield mansion of Mary's married sister.
 While preparing for the nuptials and feeling anxiety again, Lincoln, when asked where he was going, replied, "To hell, I suppose."
 In 1844, the couple bought
a house in Springfield near Lincoln's law office. Mary Todd Lincoln kept house, often with the help of a relative or hired servant girl.
He was an affectionate, though often absent, husband and father of four children.
Robert Todd Lincoln was born in 1843 and
Edward Baker Lincoln (Eddie) in 1846. Edward died on February 1, 1850, in Springfield, probably of tuberculosis.
"Willie" Lincoln was born on December 21, 1850, and died of a fever on February 20, 1862. The Lincolns' fourth son,
Thomas "Tad" Lincoln, was born on April 4, 1853, and died of heart failure at the age of 18 on July 16, 1871.
 Robert was the only child to live to adulthood and have children. The Lincolns' last descendant, great-grandson
Robert Todd Lincoln Beckwith, died in 1985.
 Lincoln "was remarkably fond of children",
 and the Lincolns were not considered to be strict with their own.
The deaths of their sons had profound effects on both parents. Later in life, Mary struggled with the stresses of losing her husband and sons, and Robert Lincoln committed her temporarily to a mental health asylum in 1875.
 Abraham Lincoln suffered from "
melancholy", a condition which now is referred to as
Lincoln's father-in-law and others of the Todd family were either slave owners or slave traders. Lincoln was close to the Todds, and he and his family occasionally visited the Todd estate in Lexington.
During his term as President of the United States, Mary was known to cook for Lincoln often. Since she was raised by a wealthy family, her cooking abilities were simple, but satisfied Lincoln's tastes, which included, particularly, imported oysters.